Spirit was originally rehomed to me when his mother passed away. We happily took him into our home. But after almost a year and a half he keeps insisting he is the alpha but I had my other two (females all fixed) seem to have lost their playfulness and walk around like they are on eggshells. Several car fits have happened where the have run over my and over me and the on the counters and broken quite a few things. I just feel everyone in my family including Spirt, would be living better lives if we could get him a new home. It took me about 6 months just to be able for him to not run. But a year later he will would let me pet him. And he does like belly rubs and and cuddles in the morning. He just didn't mesh well with my cats.